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A Parents Guide to Tackling Bullying


A Parents Guide to Tackling Bullying


Mole Valley District Council in conjunction with representatives from Surrey Police, Surrey County Council and schools from the Ashtead & Leatherhead Confederation, the Dorking Schools Partnership and the Effingham Learning Partneship have developed a booklet entitled A Parents Guide to Tackling Bullying.


We have included a summary here for your information. Please take a few minutes to read through the information and if you have concerns - please take appropriate action.



What you can do as a parent to work with schools to stamp out bullying:

  • Try not to jump to conclusions or be hasty
  • Try to remain calm and make balanced decisions regarding your child's well-being and safety
  • Work with the school to find a resolution, and stay in regular contact with the school
  • Keep an open mind about which solutions will be best for your child
  • Keep your child involved and don't try to protect them to the point where they don't know what is happening
  • Involve your child in agreeing the actions and outcomes
  • Keep listening to your child throughout. Also listen to school staff, as they have considerable expertise and experience in these situations
  • Try not to make the decision to remove your child from the school. This may not be the answer and could have a detrimental effect on the positive relationships your child already enjoys at school. Remeber you have a legal responsibility to ensure your child's attendance.


Useful Contacts

  • Surrey County Council Contact Centre - 08456 009 009
  • Surrey Police - 0845 125 2222
  • Partnership with Parents - Information, support and advice to parents of children in Surrey with Special Educational Needs 01737 737300
  • Parentline Plus - Advice and information on all aspects of parenting 0808 800 2222 (24 hours a day, 7 days a week)
  • Advisory Centre for Education - Independent advice service for parents 0808 800 5793
  • Kidscape - National Charity 08451 205204 (Mon-Fri 10:00am to 4:00pm)
  • Childline - Free 24 hour helpline for children in distress or danger 0800 1111
  • Anti-Bullying Alliance - www.anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk
  • Department for Children, School and Families - www.direct.gov.uk (parents section)